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Meditation
Article
20 Meditation Tips For Beginners
By Ray Baskerville
Although a good number of people try meditation at some point in their
lives, only a small percentage actually persist with it.
This is unfortunate, as the benefits are enormous. One possible reason
is that many beginners do not start with an appropriate mindset to make
the practice
sustainable.
The purpose of this article is to provide 20 practical recommendations
to help beginners get past the initial hurdles and integrate meditation
as an ongoing practice in their lives.
1: Make it a formal practice. Set aside a time in the day that is your
meditation practice time.
2: Only meditate for as long as you are enjoying it. It is especially
important in the beginning that meditation is not a chore.
3: Do yoga or stretch first. Firstly physical activity will draw your
own awareness into the body and away from your mind. A practice like
yoga loosens the muscles and tendons allowing you to sit more
comfortably.
Additionally, yoga opens the body not only at the physical level but
also
at subtle level, which facilitates movement of energy in the body.
4: Pick a specific location in your home to meditate. Ideally the place
you choose will be somewhere that does not have much activity at other
times. Two reasons for doing this are, the subconscious is conditioned
by repetition, so by going to the same place at the same time each day
to meditate you can get in yourself to expect to meditate when you are
there.
The second reason is that when you meditate you begin to create a
particular vibration in that spot. With time and meditation and place
will become increasingly attuned to this energy of meditation, again
making it easier for you to meditate when you are there.
5: Make sure your will meditation time is respected. if you live with
others make sure that they understand that you are not to be disturbed
while you are meditating. Equally for yourself make the same commitment,
for example if your phone should ring, be aware of it and continue your
meditation.
6: Create some representation of sacred space in your meditations spot.
This should obviously be what is meaningful for you, maybe an actual
altar with pictures and objects, or maybe just a special rug and your
meditation cushion.
7: Use ritual if it helps you. This doesn't have to be elaborate it
could be as simple as lighting a candle, or a lighting incense. The
repetition of a ritual before you
meditate, is again conditioning preparation for your body and mind.
8: Commit for the long haul. When you begin with the clear idea in your
mind that the greatest benefits from meditation will accumulate with
time, and see it as an
ongoing process, you are less likely to give up in frustration.
9: Meditate with understanding. Get clear in your mind exactly what you
think meditation is and what it will be like before you start.
Invariably everybody does have ideas and expectations like this, it is
very helpful to make them conscious before you start.
10: Be clear of your motivation to begin meditation. When you understand
your reasons and objectives in beginning meditation you are more likely
to find a practice or technique that will work for you at that time.
11: Begin with a particular practice that you have actively chosen and
commit to doing it for a given time period. Many beginners are
constantly jumping from one to type or technique of meditation to
another. Your meditation practice is a relationship with yourself, it
will not deepen if it consists of one night stands.
This is not to say that the practice or technique you begin with is the
one you stay with for the rest of your life, but a relationship is best
left when you know exactly why it is that you are leaving, and not done
simply on an impulse.
12: Educate yourself. Confusion and misunderstanding is primarily caused
by ignorance. Find a good teacher, or online community where you can get
answers. Read some books on meditation and spiritual practice.
13: Notice if frustration starts to creep into your practice. If you
notice this happening take some time to explore what is going on for
you, what expectation is not being fulfilled. Then examine the
expectation itself, what is it based on.
14: Be honest with yourself. As I said meditation is a relationship with
yourself, you are the most important person you need to be
straightforward with, and meditation
is a key place to practice this.
15: Be prepared for some discomfort. It is normal in the beginning to
experience some physical discomfort when sitting to meditate. Most
people are not accustomed to sitting still, other than maybe slouched on
a couch. Your
body needs time to develop strength and openness in the right places to
allow you to sit comfortably and alert.
Sooner or later discomfort will also be experienced at the emotional and
mental levels. If you are not consciously prepared for this it is likely
to deter you from continuing.
16: Until you are well versed in your meditation practice it can be very
beneficial to use a recording to guide you. This will help your mind to
let go of concern about what you are doing, and the recording can act as
a guide until you no longer need it.
17: Start to look for moments of awareness during the day. Finding space
to be consciously present during everyday activities is a wonderful way
to evolve your meditation practice.
Take advantage, of the time spent waiting in traffic, waiting in line,
waiting for anything, to become present to yourself and what you are
experiencing within
yourself. Look for such opportunities in your day, however brief, simple
as they are taken radically change or experience of life.
18: Do it together. Meditating with a partner or group can have many
wonderful benefits, and can improve your practice. When meditating with
others many people say that it improves the quality of their meditation.
However, it is necessary to make sure that you set agreed-upon ground
rules before you begin.
19: Don't stress about it. This may be the most important tip for
beginners, and the hardest to implement. Many people in beginning
meditation become anxious about whether they are doing it right or not,
or whether something they experience should be happening or not. The
article, meditation is practice, goes into more detail regarding this.
20: Invest in a good, comfortable meditation cushion. If you need other
things to allow your body to sit comfortably in without strain, get
them. If you set yourself up with the things that you need, you are
removing a future potential pitfall to your practice.
Meditation is one of the greatest gifts that you can give yourself, like
any lasting and meaningful relationship it takes energy and commitment,
it takes understanding and tolerance.
If you put these things in to your practice meditation will become your
best friend, and powerful resource.
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Ray Baskerville is a healer, meditation teacher, certified
hypnotherapist, yogi and proud father. He has worked as a healer, taught
meditation and yoga worldwide. Ray is also the creator and editor of
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yoga, meditation, spirituality and
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