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Alternative Health
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If You Want Improved Health,
Vitality and Wellness...Prepare for it!
By Amy Phillips-Gary
It's cold and flu season. It happens every year. This year, however, the
talk on the street, in the papers and on the internet has been
particularly focused on the H1N1 flu.
Countless news reports and websites share the list of symptoms. You can
even go online to track where the H1N1 flu has been reported across the
country and the world.
Community buildings have posted requests that people not enter if they
are experiencing H1N1 symptoms. Bottles of antibacterial hand sanitizer
seem to be available everywhere.
The preparations seem in full swing for the expected onslaught of this
influenza.
It does seem that some of the people I know are getting sick and I even
read about a young boy in my city who actually died from complications
of H1N1.
But I can't help but wonder if we are preparing so much for an epidemic
flu, we are actually making ourselves sick!
It's kind of like when you pack for a trip. Depending on the trip you
are taking, you have certain expectations of what you will encounter and
what you want to have with you.
For example, if you are going on a cruise, you will undoubtedly pack a
swim suit, both casual and dressy clothes and maybe even some sea sick
remedies.
If you are headed off to backpack in the mountains, you'd probably pack
quite differently and include hiking boots, climbing gear such as ropes
and carabiners and probably a first aid kit-- just in case.
It's likely that, as you pack, you are thinking ahead to the enjoyable
aspects of your upcoming trip and preparing for those.
Yes, you probably include a rain coat or band aids for those unexpected
and possibly unpleasant moments, but these are not your main emphasis
and focus.
Life is like a trip. What kind of experiences are you "packing"
for?
Powerful Expectations
You might not realize it but your expectations can actually create the
reality you live. Many of us have heard the term "self-fulfilling
prophecy."
This is the phenomenon in which a child, for example, is viewed as slow,
difficult or troublesome. This child is viewed by teachers, parents,
peers and him or herself as a person who will "never amount to much" and
one for whom expectations are very low.
Guess what? This child usually grows up meeting those expectations.
Of course, there are exceptions to this rule. And, quite frequently,
those who surpass and overcome the limiting expectations of themselves
can and do contribute positively to the world.
The point here is what you expect and what you prepare for usually very
easily manifests.
Your expectations are usually based on the past experiences you've had
and also what you've been told by others. Expectations are inextricably
linked in with your beliefs.
If you grew up hearing that you are not "college material" and you lived
among people whose educational backgrounds were limited to a high school
diploma, you might not have an expectation of continuing your schooling
beyond that point.
Your beliefs about your own capabilities may be constrained. You simply
might not expect to attend college and this would possibly be the
reality you end up living...unless your beliefs about yourself and your
expectations change.
Expectations and Your Health
This law of attraction dynamic is especially accurate when it come to
your health, vitality and wellness.
How many times have you been in the presence of a person who was
obviously ill and then, after worrying about catching the illness
yourself, you inevitably do?
Of course, there are germs floating about. But why is it that some
people can seem to walk through a room of coughing and nose-blowing and
come through just as healthy and resilient as before and others quite
quickly succumb?
I believe that expectations play a huge role in these different
experiences.
Even if the law of attraction does not resonate with your belief system,
consider the countless scientific studies that show how damaging to the
immune system fear and worry are.
So when the local newspaper in my city tries to offer me tips for how to
"prepare for H1N1," I just say no thanks!
Instead, I am preparing for health and wellness.
I watch my thoughts and I pay attention to the influences I am
surrounding myself with.
When I read about the flu, I notice that I feel some worry for my family
and myself. I feel compassion for those who are suffering right now and
I also feel grateful that at this moment I feel well and full of energy.
After these acknowledgments, I return to my belief that my body (and
those of my loved ones) is strong and functioning optimally. I expect
this great health to continue and know that if I do become ill, I will
rebound quickly and thoroughly.
When I take an action that affects my health, I intend that action to
keep me lined up with this expectation and desired experience.
If taking extra vitamin C or health supplements helps me continue to
feel aligned with optimum health, I will take those actions.
If continuing to care for my body by washing my hands, exercising
regularly and eating a balanced diet feels like it will keep me pointed
toward wellness, I will also take those actions.
Pay attention to what you are expecting for your own health. Where do
your thoughts tend to spend most of the time?
You can always re-direct your thinking, question your own beliefs and
form new expectations for your health and your life. With awareness and
a desire for improvement, you can take steps toward your own optimal
experience.
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Amy Phillips-Gary is a freelance writer, homeschool mom and a personal
growth adventurer.
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